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In Vedic view, a marriage with this much argument usually has a strong Mars sitting close to a tender Moon. The love has not gone anywhere. The speech has only become sharp. This is a phase, not the final word — but it moves slowly, and only as the daily heat cools. A softer window is visible in the coming months, clearer after six to eight months. Reunion will not come through one big talk. It comes through many small, quiet days. Two simple things help. Keep serious conversations out of the late evening, when harsh words come easily. And do not carry your side of the story to relatives — it only hardens positions. On Mondays, chant Om Namah Shivaya quietly. Be patient. Things will move at the right time.

In Vedic view, a marriage with this much argument usually has a strong Mars sitting close to a tender Moon. The love has not gone anywhere. The speech has only become sharp. This is a phase, not the final word — but it moves slowly, and only as the daily heat cools. A softer window is visible in the coming months, clearer after six to eight months. Reunion will not come through one big talk. It comes through many small, quiet days. Two simple things help. Keep serious conversations out of the late evening, when harsh words come easily. And do not carry your side of the story to relatives — it only hardens positions. On Mondays, chant Om Namah Shivaya quietly. Be patient. Things will move at the right time.

No — this has weight, and not only because of him. In Vedic thought the Moon rules the mind and the memory, and it has a way of carrying whatever was felt but never spoken. That's the pull you're describing. But notice where it's pointing. Not so much at Ptah as at a place in you that woke up while he was around. A softness. A hope. A version of yourself you didn't know was there, and haven't quite known what to do with since. Rahu, the planet of longing, never really shows us other people. It shows us the shape of our own hunger. So the thing that hasn't been said may not be a conversation between the two of you. It may be one you owe yourself. You don't need his answer to set this down. Knots tend to loosen the moment we stop asking the other person to untie them. The stars are patient — they'll wait while you listen to your own voice first.

No — this has weight, and not only because of him. In Vedic thought the Moon rules the mind and the memory, and it has a way of carrying whatever was felt but never spoken. That's the pull you're describing. But notice where it's pointing. Not so much at Ptah as at a place in you that woke up while he was around. A softness. A hope. A version of yourself you didn't know was there, and haven't quite known what to do with since. Rahu, the planet of longing, never really shows us other people. It shows us the shape of our own hunger. So the thing that hasn't been said may not be a conversation between the two of you. It may be one you owe yourself. You don't need his answer to set this down. Knots tend to loosen the moment we stop asking the other person to untie them. The stars are patient — they'll wait while you listen to your own voice first.

You sound certain that thirty minutes holds something. Maybe it does. But notice what the story is built on: a gap in a schedule, filled in alone, probably more than once, late at night. Arriving early at a soup kitchen is one of the least suspicious things a person can do. That doesn't mean your gut is wrong. It means the certainty isn't coming from the facts, so it's worth asking where it is coming from. Often it's older than this relationship. Usually it's a time you trusted someone and it didn't hold. Curiosity and surveillance are different roads, and only one of them leaves the relationship intact. The way through is a sentence, not a search: "I've been feeling anxious when you leave early, and I'd rather tell you than sit with it alone." Plain as that. You're allowed to want reassurance. Ask for it out loud before you go hunting for it.

You sound certain that thirty minutes holds something. Maybe it does. But notice what the story is built on: a gap in a schedule, filled in alone, probably more than once, late at night. Arriving early at a soup kitchen is one of the least suspicious things a person can do. That doesn't mean your gut is wrong. It means the certainty isn't coming from the facts, so it's worth asking where it is coming from. Often it's older than this relationship. Usually it's a time you trusted someone and it didn't hold. Curiosity and surveillance are different roads, and only one of them leaves the relationship intact. The way through is a sentence, not a search: "I've been feeling anxious when you leave early, and I'd rather tell you than sit with it alone." Plain as that. You're allowed to want reassurance. Ask for it out loud before you go hunting for it.

The Seven of Coins indicates you are taking stock of a long investment that has paid out in money, but left you hungry for actual capability. If you are being given simple jobs, it is often because employers assign work based on what is easiest, not what you are worth. Waiting for a minesite to suddenly recognize your competence is a gamble. The upside of staying is purely financial, but the psychological toll of feeling undervalued will only compound as the busy season ramps up. Use the steady paycheck to fund your Certificate IV, and treat your current position not as a career, but as a temporary funding source for your exit. Let the qualification be the leverage that removes the need to ask for better opportunities where you aren't being seen.

The Seven of Coins indicates you are taking stock of a long investment that has paid out in money, but left you hungry for actual capability. If you are being given simple jobs, it is often because employers assign work based on what is easiest, not what you are worth. Waiting for a minesite to suddenly recognize your competence is a gamble. The upside of staying is purely financial, but the psychological toll of feeling undervalued will only compound as the busy season ramps up. Use the steady paycheck to fund your Certificate IV, and treat your current position not as a career, but as a temporary funding source for your exit. Let the qualification be the leverage that removes the need to ask for better opportunities where you aren't being seen.

Two years of being undervalued leaves a residue, and what came through first is that this new offer didn't undo it. Your body stopped waiting well before your manager noticed. What I sense around your work is a door opening just as you've stepped away from it. The change is coming, yes, though it looks less like a dramatic exit and more like a handover in the months around your study. Your attention has already moved, and workplaces feel that. The Certificate IV travels well. It tends toward WHS officer or advisor work, site safety coordination in construction, transport, warehousing or aged care, return-to-work coordination, induction and training, and compliance support inside larger organisations. Those rooms reward what you built quietly over two years, which is knowing how a workplace really runs.

Two years of being undervalued leaves a residue, and what came through first is that this new offer didn't undo it. Your body stopped waiting well before your manager noticed. What I sense around your work is a door opening just as you've stepped away from it. The change is coming, yes, though it looks less like a dramatic exit and more like a handover in the months around your study. Your attention has already moved, and workplaces feel that. The Certificate IV travels well. It tends toward WHS officer or advisor work, site safety coordination in construction, transport, warehousing or aged care, return-to-work coordination, induction and training, and compliance support inside larger organisations. Those rooms reward what you built quietly over two years, which is knowing how a workplace really runs.

The scared part deserves a second look, mostly because that's the heaviest thing you're carrying right now, and it isn't even the number. It's the waiting. Your brain keeps rehearsing his reaction on a loop, and rehearsing is more exhausting than the actual day usually turns out to be. So you don't have to settle this today. Change it or don't, but notice the deciding has already been sitting on you a lot longer than the doing will. Then plan for the after. Not his reaction, yours. The first quiet week can feel weirdly flat, even a little sad, and that flatness talks people into thinking they did something wrong. They didn't. It's just a habit going silent. Day one, do something small and kind for yourself, and message the people whose replies you actually look forward to from the new number. You're allowed to want quiet.

The scared part deserves a second look, mostly because that's the heaviest thing you're carrying right now, and it isn't even the number. It's the waiting. Your brain keeps rehearsing his reaction on a loop, and rehearsing is more exhausting than the actual day usually turns out to be. So you don't have to settle this today. Change it or don't, but notice the deciding has already been sitting on you a lot longer than the doing will. Then plan for the after. Not his reaction, yours. The first quiet week can feel weirdly flat, even a little sad, and that flatness talks people into thinking they did something wrong. They didn't. It's just a habit going silent. Day one, do something small and kind for yourself, and message the people whose replies you actually look forward to from the new number. You're allowed to want quiet.

Wanting to be someone's only, wanting to be sure, that doesn't make you delusional. It makes you someone whose heart is all in. You are not too much for needing clarity. But look at how much of your day goes into decoding kc. Feeling for where they stand. That's real work, and you're allowed to be tired of it. You've been holding this question open largely alone, and that's a lonely way to love somebody. Certainty isn't something you can scavenge hard enough to find. Real love doesn't turn you into a detective. It arrives plainly, and you rest in it instead of studying it. So the question isn't whether you're crazy. It's whether this is feeding you or draining you. You're allowed to want a love that doesn't leave you guessing. A permanent maybe is too small a thing to build a heart around. Take your time. Be gentle with yourself tonight.

Wanting to be someone's only, wanting to be sure, that doesn't make you delusional. It makes you someone whose heart is all in. You are not too much for needing clarity. But look at how much of your day goes into decoding kc. Feeling for where they stand. That's real work, and you're allowed to be tired of it. You've been holding this question open largely alone, and that's a lonely way to love somebody. Certainty isn't something you can scavenge hard enough to find. Real love doesn't turn you into a detective. It arrives plainly, and you rest in it instead of studying it. So the question isn't whether you're crazy. It's whether this is feeding you or draining you. You're allowed to want a love that doesn't leave you guessing. A permanent maybe is too small a thing to build a heart around. Take your time. Be gentle with yourself tonight.

Fifty-nine, on a minesite, swimming three times a week. That's not a fragile person who just got handed a setback. That's decades of proof your body responds when you treat it well. And notice what you did. You didn't stop. You traded freestyle for breaststroke and kept showing up. That instinct to adapt instead of quit is exactly what will see you through this. The disappointment is real, and I won't talk you out of it. It stings because it touches something you've built your identity around. Feeling that doesn't make you weak. To your question: yes, small tendon tears are treatable, and the plan is usually far less dramatic than the fear. Bring your job with you, though. Tell the doctor and the physio what driving trucks and manual labour demand of that shoulder. Rehab designed for a desk worker won't fit your life. Write your questions down before you go in. You've got this one too.

Fifty-nine, on a minesite, swimming three times a week. That's not a fragile person who just got handed a setback. That's decades of proof your body responds when you treat it well. And notice what you did. You didn't stop. You traded freestyle for breaststroke and kept showing up. That instinct to adapt instead of quit is exactly what will see you through this. The disappointment is real, and I won't talk you out of it. It stings because it touches something you've built your identity around. Feeling that doesn't make you weak. To your question: yes, small tendon tears are treatable, and the plan is usually far less dramatic than the fear. Bring your job with you, though. Tell the doctor and the physio what driving trucks and manual labour demand of that shoulder. Rehab designed for a desk worker won't fit your life. Write your questions down before you go in. You've got this one too.

He's probably not thinking about you the way you're thinking about you. That's what happens when you're caught in the loop. You're watching yourself from the outside, checking every angle. Most people aren't doing that with you. They're just in the room with you. Wanting to know what someone thinks of you is usually less about him and more about some part of you that's braced, waiting to be found out. That part makes sense. It got built somewhere along the way. And weird. The people worth keeping tend to like the specific thing, not the smoothed-over version of you. You don't have to settle this tonight. Next time you're together, try noticing one true thing about the moment instead of watching yourself inside it. That's start enough.

He's probably not thinking about you the way you're thinking about you. That's what happens when you're caught in the loop. You're watching yourself from the outside, checking every angle. Most people aren't doing that with you. They're just in the room with you. Wanting to know what someone thinks of you is usually less about him and more about some part of you that's braced, waiting to be found out. That part makes sense. It got built somewhere along the way. And weird. The people worth keeping tend to like the specific thing, not the smoothed-over version of you. You don't have to settle this tonight. Next time you're together, try noticing one true thing about the moment instead of watching yourself inside it. That's start enough.

Buying that cottage this year at fifty-nine is a massive achievement, and carrying the worry of paying it off before your working days close is completely understandable. What the cards show here is a bridge between past heavy efforts and the very practical need to protect your remaining working years. The appearance of the Five of Cups points to earlier setbacks or financial strain that still casts a shadow over your confidence. Right now, symbolized by The Hermit, you are standing back and assessing your position on the minesite carefully, feeling somewhat isolated or worn down by the daily grind. But the reversed Queen of Swords in the future position indicates that staying put passively will eventually lead to frustration or rigid conditions. You are being nudged to look at external training, not to abandon your stability, but to sharpen your edge. Relying solely on the minesite to carry you through to a paid-off mortgage is a gamble when your intuition is already asking for a backup plan. Look into targeted skills or alternate employment now while you still have control over the timing, rather than waiting for the environment to decide for you.

Buying that cottage this year at fifty-nine is a massive achievement, and carrying the worry of paying it off before your working days close is completely understandable. What the cards show here is a bridge between past heavy efforts and the very practical need to protect your remaining working years. The appearance of the Five of Cups points to earlier setbacks or financial strain that still casts a shadow over your confidence. Right now, symbolized by The Hermit, you are standing back and assessing your position on the minesite carefully, feeling somewhat isolated or worn down by the daily grind. But the reversed Queen of Swords in the future position indicates that staying put passively will eventually lead to frustration or rigid conditions. You are being nudged to look at external training, not to abandon your stability, but to sharpen your edge. Relying solely on the minesite to carry you through to a paid-off mortgage is a gamble when your intuition is already asking for a backup plan. Look into targeted skills or alternate employment now while you still have control over the timing, rather than waiting for the environment to decide for you.

Why you were placed with him has a boring answer — that part was logistics, not choreography. The interesting question is why he landed the way he did. Attention works like a tuning fork: once it's been struck by a particular chord, it rings at that frequency for years afterward. And what's ringing here probably isn't his face or his laugh. It's the leaving. The man who wouldn't step up was always partly on his way out. This one is too, on paper and soon in fact. That's worth separating from wishful thinking. Fondness for someone whose chapter closed, with no pull to reopen it, isn't unfinished business. It's a wound that healed straight. What you're feeling isn't longing replaying itself; it's your pattern-reader doing its job, and doing it accurately. Enjoy the echo. You don't have to follow it. When he goes, let him go quietly.

Why you were placed with him has a boring answer — that part was logistics, not choreography. The interesting question is why he landed the way he did. Attention works like a tuning fork: once it's been struck by a particular chord, it rings at that frequency for years afterward. And what's ringing here probably isn't his face or his laugh. It's the leaving. The man who wouldn't step up was always partly on his way out. This one is too, on paper and soon in fact. That's worth separating from wishful thinking. Fondness for someone whose chapter closed, with no pull to reopen it, isn't unfinished business. It's a wound that healed straight. What you're feeling isn't longing replaying itself; it's your pattern-reader doing its job, and doing it accurately. Enjoy the echo. You don't have to follow it. When he goes, let him go quietly.

Take "nothing in particular" at face value. That's not a riddle, it's the read. A guy who's into you has something specific in his head: a thing you said, when he'll see you next, whether you're free Saturday. Not a fog. Fog means you're background right now, not a priority. That's not cruel, it's useful. Stop mining his silence for hidden meaning. The vagueness is the message. One caveat, because it matters: some guys are low-effort over text and show it in person. If he lights up around you and makes real plans, he's present, just not a words guy. If he's foggy in person too, you have your answer. Go by actions over the next few weeks, not his inner monologue. If he plans, shows up, follows through, he cares. If you're the only one keeping it alive, you've got your read. Trust it.

Take "nothing in particular" at face value. That's not a riddle, it's the read. A guy who's into you has something specific in his head: a thing you said, when he'll see you next, whether you're free Saturday. Not a fog. Fog means you're background right now, not a priority. That's not cruel, it's useful. Stop mining his silence for hidden meaning. The vagueness is the message. One caveat, because it matters: some guys are low-effort over text and show it in person. If he lights up around you and makes real plans, he's present, just not a words guy. If he's foggy in person too, you have your answer. Go by actions over the next few weeks, not his inner monologue. If he plans, shows up, follows through, he cares. If you're the only one keeping it alive, you've got your read. Trust it.

Dinner where a guy opens up about an ex who treated him badly isn't small talk. That's him deciding you're safe enough to be unpolished with, which usually means he's interested and it's moved past surface level. The part that matters is how he tells it. If the whole story is "she was awful, I did nothing wrong," slow down. That's the version that repeats. If he owns even a sliver of why he stayed, that's a man who's learned something. You wondered how he lasted so long with her. Sometimes it's love, sometimes it's a guy who doesn't know his own boundaries yet. Your school plans coming up in the same night means he's running the math on logistics, not just passing time. Don't sentence the whole thing based on one dinner. Watch the next few weeks. Does he follow up, make plans, keep showing up? That settles what a good conversation can't.

Dinner where a guy opens up about an ex who treated him badly isn't small talk. That's him deciding you're safe enough to be unpolished with, which usually means he's interested and it's moved past surface level. The part that matters is how he tells it. If the whole story is "she was awful, I did nothing wrong," slow down. That's the version that repeats. If he owns even a sliver of why he stayed, that's a man who's learned something. You wondered how he lasted so long with her. Sometimes it's love, sometimes it's a guy who doesn't know his own boundaries yet. Your school plans coming up in the same night means he's running the math on logistics, not just passing time. Don't sentence the whole thing based on one dinner. Watch the next few weeks. Does he follow up, make plans, keep showing up? That settles what a good conversation can't.

The cards open with The Lovers right at the center of the present, pointing to a choice rather than a pre-determined destination. When looking down the path of the first option, the energy carries hesitation and circular thinking, where old issues tend to resurface without leading to a solid footing. The second option moves toward a need for clear boundaries, logic, and intellectual honesty, yet it also suggests a tendency to hold back emotionally until everything feels entirely safe and controlled. Neither choice is handed to you as a simple guarantee; the outcome depends on whether you are looking for emotional familiarity or mental clarity.

The cards open with The Lovers right at the center of the present, pointing to a choice rather than a pre-determined destination. When looking down the path of the first option, the energy carries hesitation and circular thinking, where old issues tend to resurface without leading to a solid footing. The second option moves toward a need for clear boundaries, logic, and intellectual honesty, yet it also suggests a tendency to hold back emotionally until everything feels entirely safe and controlled. Neither choice is handed to you as a simple guarantee; the outcome depends on whether you are looking for emotional familiarity or mental clarity.

Watch when Nigel starts directing traffic. It's rarely during a clean handover. It's when the plan is fuzzy and nobody owns the next step. He steps into that gap, and gaps make some people itch. Orders are how they scratch. Two readings fit. One: uncertainty is intolerable to him, so he converts it into instructions. Two: work may be the one room where he feels necessary. Hence the no-life look. Possibly true. Not yours to repair. Here's the part about you. His show runs on reaction. Even the shared "what an idiot" look is attention, and attention is his food. If it costs you nothing, treat him like weather and stop supplying. If it costs you something real, say one sentence once, then let it die. You can read a person without adopting him. That's where the sting goes.

Watch when Nigel starts directing traffic. It's rarely during a clean handover. It's when the plan is fuzzy and nobody owns the next step. He steps into that gap, and gaps make some people itch. Orders are how they scratch. Two readings fit. One: uncertainty is intolerable to him, so he converts it into instructions. Two: work may be the one room where he feels necessary. Hence the no-life look. Possibly true. Not yours to repair. Here's the part about you. His show runs on reaction. Even the shared "what an idiot" look is attention, and attention is his food. If it costs you nothing, treat him like weather and stop supplying. If it costs you something real, say one sentence once, then let it die. You can read a person without adopting him. That's where the sting goes.

Honestly? A few kilos over one winter is one of the least alarming things a body does. Winter is long, dark early, and full of food that hugs back. Everyone's jeans get a bit honest around February. The number you asked for, I'll leave alone. Calorie targets are guesses with good manners, and they've never met your Tuesday. Instead: leave the weight talk until spring, and nudge three small things. Early daylight when you can, even ten minutes. A short walk after your biggest meal. Dinner built around protein and veg first, then the rest, so nothing's off-limits and you're not white-knuckling a list. If you're curious, jot loosely what you eat for two weeks. Not judging, just looking. Patterns show up fast. Fifty-nine isn't a cliff. It's just the year the autopilot deserves a glance.

Honestly? A few kilos over one winter is one of the least alarming things a body does. Winter is long, dark early, and full of food that hugs back. Everyone's jeans get a bit honest around February. The number you asked for, I'll leave alone. Calorie targets are guesses with good manners, and they've never met your Tuesday. Instead: leave the weight talk until spring, and nudge three small things. Early daylight when you can, even ten minutes. A short walk after your biggest meal. Dinner built around protein and veg first, then the rest, so nothing's off-limits and you're not white-knuckling a list. If you're curious, jot loosely what you eat for two weeks. Not judging, just looking. Patterns show up fast. Fifty-nine isn't a cliff. It's just the year the autopilot deserves a glance.

Something in the way you tell this tells me the hug is the part you keep returning to. Not the kiss. The arms around you, and the fact that he said it was always nice. That's the piece you're holding, which makes sense, because being held is what you've been hungry for. He gave you something real, and he also drew a line. Both can be true. When he said no kissing, then told you it's nice to trust someone, to have someone to talk to sometimes, that sounds like a man offering closeness without the romance. Not a game. Just his actual shape right now. The ache isn't really about him, I think. It's about how much you want to be wanted, and how fast you lean into any warmth to prove it. That's worth sitting with. The hug was real. Let it be enough on its own, without turning it into a test of whether you're chosen.

Something in the way you tell this tells me the hug is the part you keep returning to. Not the kiss. The arms around you, and the fact that he said it was always nice. That's the piece you're holding, which makes sense, because being held is what you've been hungry for. He gave you something real, and he also drew a line. Both can be true. When he said no kissing, then told you it's nice to trust someone, to have someone to talk to sometimes, that sounds like a man offering closeness without the romance. Not a game. Just his actual shape right now. The ache isn't really about him, I think. It's about how much you want to be wanted, and how fast you lean into any warmth to prove it. That's worth sitting with. The hug was real. Let it be enough on its own, without turning it into a test of whether you're chosen.

Sixty hours a week is a lot of life to hand over. You're doing it for real reasons: the cottage, the mortgage, the steadiness. That doesn't make the flatness any less real. What I notice is that you already know what you'd rather be doing. Taking people to appointments. A morning a week with Riding for the Disabled. Projects at the community centre. That isn't a daydream you'd have to invent. It's been sitting in you a while. The money has to come first for now. That's true. But for now isn't forever. Try one morning a month. Not a week. One. The mortgage won't notice. And if this heaviness deepens, don't sit with it alone. A GP, a counsellor, a helpline. That's not overkill. You're not wasting away. You're holding a door open.

Sixty hours a week is a lot of life to hand over. You're doing it for real reasons: the cottage, the mortgage, the steadiness. That doesn't make the flatness any less real. What I notice is that you already know what you'd rather be doing. Taking people to appointments. A morning a week with Riding for the Disabled. Projects at the community centre. That isn't a daydream you'd have to invent. It's been sitting in you a while. The money has to come first for now. That's true. But for now isn't forever. Try one morning a month. Not a week. One. The mortgage won't notice. And if this heaviness deepens, don't sit with it alone. A GP, a counsellor, a helpline. That's not overkill. You're not wasting away. You're holding a door open.

Nobody can tell you about 2029; anyone who does is guessing with your heart. Here's the straight version: the day you start hiring a bodyguard for your future is the day you already sense something's off. You asked three things at once: will he leave, is it ending, is another man coming. Only one is about him. The rest is about you packing a bag in your head. From the man's side: a guy who's sure about you doesn't leave you guessing this long. Certainty is loud. If you need a stranger to read him, his silence already answered. And no, I can't promise a better guy is around the corner. Waiting on a hypothetical upgrade is how people lose years. Most likely outcome? Not a dramatic exit. This same letter next year, different number. Skip the calendar. The real question is whether you're staying because you want him, or because you're scared to go.

Nobody can tell you about 2029; anyone who does is guessing with your heart. Here's the straight version: the day you start hiring a bodyguard for your future is the day you already sense something's off. You asked three things at once: will he leave, is it ending, is another man coming. Only one is about him. The rest is about you packing a bag in your head. From the man's side: a guy who's sure about you doesn't leave you guessing this long. Certainty is loud. If you need a stranger to read him, his silence already answered. And no, I can't promise a better guy is around the corner. Waiting on a hypothetical upgrade is how people lose years. Most likely outcome? Not a dramatic exit. This same letter next year, different number. Skip the calendar. The real question is whether you're staying because you want him, or because you're scared to go.

Here's the honest read: tonight, he's probably not thinking about you at all. Not in the way you mean. Not because you're forgettable, but because men don't lie in the dark replaying things the way you're doing right now. When a guy is genuinely into you, he acts. He texts, he makes plans, he shows up. That's how it lives in his head: as something to do, not something to sit and brood about. Silence at midnight isn't a sign he's wrestling with feelings for you. Usually it's just silence. So the real question isn't what he's thinking at 2am. It's what he did at 2pm. Look at his last week of actual behavior. Did he start conversations, follow through, make real time for you? That answers it without you having to read his mind. Lay out your last few exchanges for me, word for word, and I'll tell you straight where you stand. My guess is you already know, and you're hoping I'll say otherwise.

Here's the honest read: tonight, he's probably not thinking about you at all. Not in the way you mean. Not because you're forgettable, but because men don't lie in the dark replaying things the way you're doing right now. When a guy is genuinely into you, he acts. He texts, he makes plans, he shows up. That's how it lives in his head: as something to do, not something to sit and brood about. Silence at midnight isn't a sign he's wrestling with feelings for you. Usually it's just silence. So the real question isn't what he's thinking at 2am. It's what he did at 2pm. Look at his last week of actual behavior. Did he start conversations, follow through, make real time for you? That answers it without you having to read his mind. Lay out your last few exchanges for me, word for word, and I'll tell you straight where you stand. My guess is you already know, and you're hoping I'll say otherwise.