What's coming through is a quiet but persistent yes from him on the wanting side. There's a pull there — it's not loud, not dramatic. It's more like a low hum that hasn't stopped since you two separated. He thinks about it. He's turned it over in his mind more than once. But wanting and doing are two different things right now. What I'm sensing is that he's still sitting in whatever caused the break in the first place. It hasn't been processed. He's not avoiding you — he's avoiding the discomfort of looking at his own part in it. So the desire is real, but the readiness isn't there yet. If you both go back without that piece being addressed, the same fracture will show up again. The potential for a reunion is there, but only if the space between you gets cleaned up first. Right now it's carrying more silence than resolution.
What's coming through is a quiet but persistent yes from him on the wanting side. There's a pull there — it's not loud, not dramatic. It's more like a low hum that hasn't stopped since you two separated. He thinks about it. He's turned it over in his mind more than once. But wanting and doing are two different things right now. What I'm sensing is that he's still sitting in whatever caused the break in the first place. It hasn't been processed. He's not avoiding you — he's avoiding the discomfort of looking at his own part in it. So the desire is real, but the readiness isn't there yet. If you both go back without that piece being addressed, the same fracture will show up again. The potential for a reunion is there, but only if the space between you gets cleaned up first. Right now it's carrying more silence than resolution.
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