What is Anthony's vibe toward me today and is it okay to approach him?
What is Anthony's overall vibe towards me today? Is he still concerned that he hasn't seen me since saturday? Would it be okay to approach him?
Stasia
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Elina
@Elina
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Anthony's energy right now carries a quiet weight. The reversed Three of Swords in his feelings position tells me he's aware of some emotional distance or unresolved tension between you. It's not dramatic heartbreak, but a subtle disappointment — a sense that something has felt slightly off or incomplete since Saturday.
On his level of concern: the reversed Temperance says he feels internally *off-balance*, but not necessarily consumed with worry about the gap in contact. It's more restlessness than active concern. He's aware of the absence, but he's not sitting there anxiously counting days.
As for approaching him — the Four of Cups advises caution. He's in a more withdrawn, contemplative headspace. If you reach out, keep it light and low-pressure. He may not respond with the warmth you're hoping for right away, but that's about where *he* is internally, not about you. Give him a gentle opening and see if he steps toward it.
Victor Ashbourne
@VictorAshbourne
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Two days is not a gap. Saturday to Monday is a single weekend cycle — normal breathing room, not an absence. The fact that you're reading concern into it tells me more about your anxiety threshold than his emotional state.
You're projecting a problem where none likely exists. If contact was consistent before Saturday, nothing has broken. If it was already inconsistent, then the weekend didn't create the issue — it only revealed it.
The real question isn't whether he's "concerned." It's whether your baseline expectation of contact frequency matches his. If it does, approach normally. If it doesn't, one conversation won't fix the pattern.
Approach him if you want to. But do it because you're choosing connection, not because you need reassurance that he still wants you around. Those are two different energies, and people feel the difference.
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J.P. Palmer
@JPPalmer
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The energy between you and Anthony today feels softer than you might expect. There’s a sense of him leaning back rather than pulling away — almost like he’s letting things breathe, watching how the connection settles on its own. It doesn’t feel like concern so much as quiet curiosity, the kind that comes when someone is still open but not pushing for anything.
Approaching him seems perfectly fine. The tone around him isn’t closed or guarded; it’s more neutral‑warm, as if he’d meet you where you are without overthinking the recent pause. A simple, natural gesture from you would likely land gently.
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