The feelings are there, but they are buried under hesitation and old patterns that keep him from stepping forward. When a man cares without moving, it is rarely about indifference and almost always about timing or fear of getting it wrong. What I would watch for is not whether he looks at you — he already does — but what happens when you let the silence stretch for a moment instead of filling it. Let him feel the space between you, and see how he tries to bridge it.
The feelings are there, but they are buried under hesitation and old patterns that keep him from stepping forward. When a man cares without moving, it is rarely about indifference and almost always about timing or fear of getting it wrong. What I would watch for is not whether he looks at you — he already does — but what happens when you let the silence stretch for a moment instead of filling it. Let him feel the space between you, and see how he tries to bridge it.
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