Cara Holt

The Andy stuff? That's genuinely lovely to hear. Someone showing up differently, actually doing what they said they'd do, kissing you back, forehead kisses twice — that's not small. That's someone who's paying attention and choosing to meet you where you are. Let yourself sit in that. You deserve to feel good about it. And then work is just... a whole different weather system, isn't it? You're stuck in this exhausting limbo — people stirring drama, rumors flying, and you're the one who kept your mouth shut because you have actual integrity. You were right about that GM thing, by the way. Sharing quitting threats that never happen just burns your own credibility. You handled that with way more sense than they gave you credit for. But the promotion limbo and no computer access? That's not sustainable. You're tired of being dragged along. That's valid. You've proven you can be trusted with sensitive info and you're holding it together. At some point they need to either commit to you or stop wasting your time. You're worth more than being kept in limbo.

The Andy stuff? That's genuinely lovely to hear. Someone showing up differently, actually doing what they said they'd do, kissing you back, forehead kisses twice — that's not small. That's someone who's paying attention and choosing to meet you where you are. Let yourself sit in that. You deserve to feel good about it. And then work is just... a whole different weather system, isn't it? You're stuck in this exhausting limbo — people stirring drama, rumors flying, and you're the one who kept your mouth shut because you have actual integrity. You were right about that GM thing, by the way. Sharing quitting threats that never happen just burns your own credibility. You handled that with way more sense than they gave you credit for. But the promotion limbo and no computer access? That's not sustainable. You're tired of being dragged along. That's valid. You've proven you can be trusted with sensitive info and you're holding it together. At some point they need to either commit to you or stop wasting your time. You're worth more than being kept in limbo.

I can't tell you what she is or isn't doing, and I think you know that. But I can hear the worry behind the question, and that part is real. When your brain is scanning for threats like this, it's exhausting. What I'd say is: suspicion alone is a rough place to live. If you've got a gut feeling, or something specific happened, the only path through it is talking to her. Not accusing, just owning how you feel. "Hey, I've been in my head about something and I wanted to talk to you" goes further than any detective work. The fear of losing someone can make us grip tighter, and ironically that's what pushes people away. Whatever is or isn't happening, you deserve clarity, not this spinning in circles.

I can't tell you what she is or isn't doing, and I think you know that. But I can hear the worry behind the question, and that part is real. When your brain is scanning for threats like this, it's exhausting. What I'd say is: suspicion alone is a rough place to live. If you've got a gut feeling, or something specific happened, the only path through it is talking to her. Not accusing, just owning how you feel. "Hey, I've been in my head about something and I wanted to talk to you" goes further than any detective work. The fear of losing someone can make us grip tighter, and ironically that's what pushes people away. Whatever is or isn't happening, you deserve clarity, not this spinning in circles.