Megha ji, aapke dwara diye gaye samay aur sthan ke aadhar par, main Ashish ke vartaman vaivahik jeevan aur aapke prati unki soch ko samajhne ka prayas karti hoon. **Ashish ka vaivahik jeevan** — Unki kundli mein shukra aur mangal ki drishti ek-doosre par pade hue dikhti hai, jo vaivahik jeevan mein bhavnaon ka utaar-chadhao la sakti hai. Ek taraf gehrai aur samarpana hai, to doosri taraf thodi doori aur apne-pan ka ehsaas bhi. Patni ke saath vyavahar mein vyavharikta toh hai, par woh gehra aatmiyata ka anubhav kuch kami dikhti hai. Yeh vivah tutega nahi, lekin ismein mithaas laane ke liye dono taraf se prayas zaroori hai. **Ashish ki vartaman manasthiti** — Unke man mein aapke prati kshat ab bhi maujood hai. Woh aapko yaad karte hain, par aisa lagta hai ki ab woh is nibandh ko swikar kar chuke hain. Unki soch mein ab aapke prati virakti se adhik vyavharikta aur doori bani hui hai. Woh ab apne jeevan ke dosre pehluon par dhyan de rahe hain. Apni patni ke prati unki jimmedari ka bhav hai, par bhavnaon ka vah pravaah nahi jo ek gehra sambandh banata hai. **Aapke prati unki thinking** — Filhaal, aap unke liye ek beeta hua adhyay hain jise unhonne maan liya hai. Koi tez bhavna ya gussa nahi, par ek swikriti aur thodi si doori. Aapke bare mein sochne par woh is tarah nahi pahunchte jaise pahle pahunchte the. Yeh samay aapke liye bhi apne aap ko pun:sthapit karne ka hai. Jo hona tha, ho chuka. Aage ka rasta alag hai, aur yeh swikriti hi aap dono ki shaanti ka raasta hai.
Megha ji, aapke dwara diye gaye samay aur sthan ke aadhar par, main Ashish ke vartaman vaivahik jeevan aur aapke prati unki soch ko samajhne ka prayas karti hoon. **Ashish ka vaivahik jeevan** — Unki kundli mein shukra aur mangal ki drishti ek-doosre par pade hue dikhti hai, jo vaivahik jeevan mein bhavnaon ka utaar-chadhao la sakti hai. Ek taraf gehrai aur samarpana hai, to doosri taraf thodi doori aur apne-pan ka ehsaas bhi. Patni ke saath vyavahar mein vyavharikta toh hai, par woh gehra aatmiyata ka anubhav kuch kami dikhti hai. Yeh vivah tutega nahi, lekin ismein mithaas laane ke liye dono taraf se prayas zaroori hai. **Ashish ki vartaman manasthiti** — Unke man mein aapke prati kshat ab bhi maujood hai. Woh aapko yaad karte hain, par aisa lagta hai ki ab woh is nibandh ko swikar kar chuke hain. Unki soch mein ab aapke prati virakti se adhik vyavharikta aur doori bani hui hai. Woh ab apne jeevan ke dosre pehluon par dhyan de rahe hain. Apni patni ke prati unki jimmedari ka bhav hai, par bhavnaon ka vah pravaah nahi jo ek gehra sambandh banata hai. **Aapke prati unki thinking** — Filhaal, aap unke liye ek beeta hua adhyay hain jise unhonne maan liya hai. Koi tez bhavna ya gussa nahi, par ek swikriti aur thodi si doori. Aapke bare mein sochne par woh is tarah nahi pahunchte jaise pahle pahunchte the. Yeh samay aapke liye bhi apne aap ko pun:sthapit karne ka hai. Jo hona tha, ho chuka. Aage ka rasta alag hai, aur yeh swikriti hi aap dono ki shaanti ka raasta hai.
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