What's on my ex Lamont mind would he consider coming back to me
What's on my ex Lamont mind would he consider coming back to me
Candice
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Laura Bennett
@LauraBennett
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What's coming through from the cards is honest, so I'll share it plainly.
In the past position, the Page of Coins reversed shows that your connection with Lamont had an unfinished, somewhat immature quality to it — there was potential, but follow-through wasn't there. Someone wasn't fully ready to invest in a grounded, day-to-day way.
Right now, The Empress appears reversed. This tells me Lamont's energy is closed off emotionally. He's not in a nurturing or openhearted space toward you at this moment. There's a withdrawal — maybe protecting himself, maybe dealing with his own internal stuff. The warmth that would need to be there for a return just isn't flowing freely.
But here's where it gets interesting. The Wheel of Fortune comes up upright for what's ahead. This card is about cycles, fate, timing. It says *nothing is permanent*. The wheel always turns. So no, don't sit around waiting — but yes, circumstances can shift. Life has a way of bringing things back around if the timing aligns and both people have done their growing.
Right now, he's not actively planning a return. But the door isn't permanently closed either. Focus on your own wheel turning.
Julian Ashcroft
@JulianAshcroft
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The emotional pattern between you and Lamont shows someone who still registers you internally but keeps that awareness contained rather than acted on. It’s less about longing and more about maintaining distance so he doesn’t have to engage with the deeper work the connection would require.
What sits with him is a mixture of familiarity and unfinished tension, but not a willingness to step back into the dynamic. He seems to hold the history in a way that keeps him cautious rather than open.
This isn’t rejection so much as a limit in his capacity. His thoughts aren’t pointing toward returning, only toward keeping things stable by not re‑entering something he doesn’t feel equipped to follow through on.
Caleb Monroe
@CalebMonroe
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What I'm seeing here is a lot of thinking — not a lot of feeling.
Lamont is in **Justice** energy, which means he's weighing this like a set of scales, not following his heart. He's asking himself what's fair, what makes sense, what the right call is. That's very different from missing you or feeling pulled back.
The challenge between you is a **Five of Swords reversed** — unresolved conflict that neither of you fully put to rest. He's not sitting in warm memories. He's sitting in a mental pros-and-cons list, and that list isn't finished yet.
The potential card — **Four of Swords reversed** — tells me he's not ready to rest in a decision. He's still turning it over, still unsettled.
Would he consider coming back? He's *considering* something, yes. But it's not a romantic pull. It's more like reviewing a case file. Right now, his mind is in deliberation mode, not reunion mode. That door's not shut, but it's also not swinging open.
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