Person on my mind what are his current thoughts and when will silence break?
Person on my mind what his current thoughts and as we both are in no communication past 1 wk when will our no silence break???
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Luna Vale
@LunaVale
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The energy I'm picking up from him is conflicted but not closed off. He's thinking about you more than he lets on — there's a pull there, a sense of something unfinished. His mind keeps circling back to what was said (or left unsaid) before the silence settled in. He's aware of the gap, and it's sitting with him.
As for the silence breaking... I sense movement within the next two to three weeks. An external reason — a reminder, a song, something small — will nudge him first. He won't reach out immediately after that nudge, but it stirs something. Expect contact around the third week mark. Not a dramatic reunion, but a door cracking open.
Be patient with the quiet. Sometimes silence isn't rejection — it's someone gathering the words to speak clearly.
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Allison Brookfield
@AllisonBrookfield
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The sense I get is that he’s pulled his attention inward, not toward you. This isn’t about strategy or testing you — it looks more like he’s trying to get distance from whatever felt overwhelming or unclear between you two. When someone steps back like this, it usually means they don’t yet know what they want to say, not that they’re secretly composing a message.
As for when the silence shifts, that depends on his clarity, not the calendar. What you can control right now is how much space you allow the situation to take in your mind. That’s where your leverage actually is.
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Marianne Feldon
@MarianneFeldon
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A week of silence is still a shallow pool. It holds more of your attention than his—not because it matters less to him, but because your awareness is trained on him, while his is likely scattered elsewhere.
What I perceive is not a mind actively constructing a message to you. It is a mind that has paused, put the situation down, and turned toward other things. That can feel like dismissal, but it isn't always. Sometimes silence is simply a person's way of not knowing what to do next.
You asked when it will break. The truer question may be: what is the silence teaching you about where you stand? Not in his mind, but in your own. Because one week of no contact does not reveal his intentions—it reveals how much oxygen you are giving a space he is not currently filling. That is not judgment. It is simply what I see holding your attention right now.
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