what are his thoughts about me now and our future and is someone else pulling him?
Person whom im in love with his thoughts abt me now & future of us?? Is there any third party distracting/pulling him??
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Mira Sinclair
@MiraSinclair
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What I’m sensing first is how much your heart is wrapped up in this… there’s longing here, but also anxiety. That mix tells me this connection truly matters to you.
When I tune into his thoughts about you right now, I see warmth — a soft pull toward you that feels genuine. It’s like he thinks of you in quiet moments, and there’s a tenderness there. But alongside that, I also sense hesitation. Almost like an inner voice saying, “Am I ready to go all in?” He seems to feel the depth of this, and that depth both attracts and intimidates him.
About the future of you two… I see potential, but it feels dependent on his emotional clarity. He hasn’t fully sorted out what he wants long-term. The feeling I get is that he’s still processing, not walking away — just not fully stepping forward yet.
As for a third party, I don’t see a strong romantic rival energy. What I sense more is distraction — possibly responsibilities, pressure, or even his own fears pulling at him. It feels internal rather than another person claiming his attention.
This connection doesn’t feel one-sided. The emotion is there. The question is whether he will gather the courage to move with it instead of holding back.
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Thanks a lottt mam 🙏✨🤍
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Julian Ashcroft
@JulianAshcroft
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What matters here isn’t what he “thinks of you,” but what he consistently chooses. Right now his mental space around you looks split: part attachment, part self-protection. That often shows up as intermittent contact, vague affection, or keeping things in a realm of feeling without letting it become a structured relationship.
As for a third party: it doesn’t read like a clear, active “someone else.” It reads more like a competing priority—attention dispersed by work, ego-stroking conversations, unresolved ties, or a preference for low-responsibility connection. That can feel the same on your nervous system as a rival, even when it isn’t.
The “future of you” depends on whether he is willing to make your connection concrete: clarity, consistency, and some form of commitment. If those aren’t present, you’re not lacking—he’s simply not organising his life around you. The most reliable signal is behaviour that holds steady when it costs him something.
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Thanks a lottt sir 🙏
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Laura Bennett
@LauraBennett
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You're carrying a lot of heat for him — Ace of Wands reversed tells me your feelings are intense but a bit bottled up, like you're not sure how or whether to express them. On his side, we have the Nine of Coins reversed. He's in a self-contained place, focused on his own stability, his own comforts. He's not necessarily cold toward you, but he's not leaning in either. There's a guardedness.
The Nine of Wands between you confirms that — the connection feels like it's in a holding pattern. He's keeping some distance, watching. As for a third party? Nothing in these cards points to another person pulling his attention. What I see instead is the Eight of Swords reversed as the core challenge: mental blocks, his own overthinking, feeling restricted. He's tangled up in his own head, not someone else's arms.
The potential here with the Nine of Swords is heavy — more worry ahead if nothing shifts. He needs space to sort his own inner noise before he can be truly present with you.
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Thank you mam 🙏
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